May 24

A couple of exciting things happened last week. I mentioned in my blog last week that a client and had a tremendous breakthrough. She wanted to really change her life but had to face some difficult experiences from her past for that change to occur. She did it. She still has other things to explore, but she is on the right path.

This weekend I watched as many of the fathers and sons in our BAM father/son weekend had major breakthroughs in their relationships. All of these dads wanted to have deeper relationships with their sons. What most of them needed was the structure and process to build that deeper relationship. That is what happens in the BAM weekend – intentional structure to build relationships.

I realize on reflection that most of us want to make change, but we have two dilemmas that get in the way. We either don’t know how to make the change or we are afraid to take the step to make it happen. To get through both of these dilemmas, one critical action must occur. We must ask for help. Help is out there. But if you don’t ask for help the future becomes almost impossible to manifest. When you ask for help, though, and then follow through with what is within your control, the future beings to materialize.

We have everything within us to become the wonderful person we were created except one thing. We need a guide to help us see the things we can’t see on our own and help us take the steps that we may be afraid to take.

I am realizing more and more that the role of the guide is one of my major gifts.